Friday, February 27, 2009

FREE Divorce Planning Teleconference

Attend FREE seminar without leaving home.
With the home-mortgage crisis in the U.S. wreaking havoc in the real estate and banking industries, its affect is now trickling down into other areas, such as divorce. Under the current market conditions, breaking up is harder to do than ever.

Many couples are forced to live under the same roof because they can't afford to move on separately. They can’t unload their houses for enough money to pay off their mortgages and home-equity debts, but job losses and tougher mortgage standards make it harder to afford splitting them, too.

That is why we have created a FREE workshop that takes some of the uncertainty out of the process.
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Tuesday, February 10, 2009

Big Pretty Things



I love big pretty shiny things. This is Giya speakers. It is a musical instrument and a beautiful sculpture. Buy one of these and invite me over for cigars and a glass of Kelt.

For Gods Sake. Can WE Change The Script?

Men are evil cheaters. Women are virginal victims.

Starting over after divorce.

The first rule is to treat yourself well. If you have been thru the bruising that calls itself the justice system, then you deserve a mental health break. Spend a few days relaxing in an environment you enjoy. Just don't spend too many night at Scores or Spearmint Rhino, gentlemen show moderation in all things.

Make sure you get a physical, good health is essential for a bright future. Take it slow and steady you have made it thru the storm.

Monday, February 09, 2009

I have no words....

Marriage may be about love, but divorce is definitely about money!

The credit crunch is putting the squeeze on the marriages of the super wealthy as a record number of couples with $10 million or more in assets sue for divorce. One financial trader confessed that he had to disguise the collapse of his fortune, from $20m to $8m, by borrowing heavily so that his wife could keep up her high-spending habit. If she were to suspect he was worth only $8m, he feared she would immediately sue for divorce.

I really have no words for this level of stupidity. He really needs to grow a pair and get himself a 8 million dollar woman instead.

Saturday, February 07, 2009

Read Em and Weep.

•There are numerous agencies, social support services and infrastructure geared to supporting women transitioning thru divorce. There is a Divorce University for women yet no similar organization exists for men.

•Divorced Men are 10 times more likely than women to commit suicide. Men who don't commit suicide are often depressed, but they cover up the depression by quickly remarrying to fill the void. These men also tend to overwork, drink or gamble too much.

•Professional athletes have a 80 percent divorce rate. No one provides resources on how these athletes can keep their families. No one helps them to divorce without damage.

•Men are being abandoned with children or gaining custody of children, and lack the support systems that women have.

• In Southern California the divorce rate is believed to be somewhere in the neighborhood of 60-75%.

•65% of divorces are initiated by women. December 2003 AARP survey, 66 percent of women reported that they asked for the divorce, compared with 41 percent of men. Men more often than women were caught off-guard by their divorce (the news blind-sided 26 percent of men, compared with 14 percent of women).

•75% of all divorced people re-marry, half of them within three years. Fifty percent of first marriages, 67 percent of second and 74 percent of third marriages end in divorce.


We love the gossip and tawdriness of the 76 million dollar divorce, the cheating and money fights, but at the end of the day behind these statistics there are millions of families and men who need support.

Thursday, February 05, 2009

How To Save A Marriage On Valentine's Day

Attention Guys!!

Here are 3 tips to help keep you from becoming a Hemancipation client.
Not that I wouldn't love to have you as a client, but romance is better.

1. Call Noka and order the Grand Cru Collection, surprise her with chocolate, and champagne.

2. Bukiety flowers are always intoxicating. Get something unique.

3. Romance is a simple feeling best expressed lavishly. Head to Milliken Creek Inn and Spa for some Pillow Talk, and if you are on the East Coast head to Blackberry Farm.

4. Lingerie is a win win. Head to Agent Provocateur for some sensual lingerie, you will enjoy the shopping.

5. Grab a bottle of Yalumba The Reserve Cabernet Sauvignon Shiraz 1998 it is deep inky red with a very deep rich scent.

Enjoy the day and the night to come.