Starting over after divorce.

The first rule is to treat yourself well. If you have been thru the bruising that calls itself the justice system, then you deserve a mental health break. Spend a few days relaxing in an environment you enjoy. Just don't spend too many night at Scores or Spearmint Rhino, gentlemen show moderation in all things.

Make sure you get a physical, good health is essential for a bright future. Take it slow and steady you have made it thru the storm.

Banish your bare-bones bachelor appearance.

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